
🐶 “My Dog Won’t Stay…”
They:
- Pop up immediately
- Follow you
- Break position quickly
- Sound familiar? 😅
👉 “Stay” isn’t just one skill—it’s actually three skills combined
🧠 The 3 Parts of “Stay”
For a solid stay, your dog must learn:
✔ Duration (how long to stay)
✔ Distance (how far you move away)
✔ Distractions (what’s happening around them)
👉 Most people try to train all three at once… and that’s where things fall apart
🐾 Step 1: Start with Duration
Ask for a sit or down
Wait 1–2 seconds
Reward before your dog moves
👉 Build time slowly
🦴 Step 2: Add Distance
Once your dog can stay for a few seconds:
✔ Take ONE step back
✔ Return and reward
👉 Always go back to your dog
(not calling them out of the stay yet)
🧁 Step 3: Add a Release Cue
This is HUGE.
Use a word like:
👉 “Free” or “Okay”
Your dog should learn:
👉 Stay means stay… until released
🔁 Step 4: Introduce Distractions Gradually
Start small:
✔ Move your arms
✔ Take a step
✔ Add mild movement
👉 Build slowly—don’t jump to chaos
⏱ Step 5: Practice in Different Environments
- Indoors
- Backyard
- Quiet outdoor spaces
👉 Remember: dogs don’t generalize well
🚫 Common Mistakes
❌ Asking for too much too soon
❌ Skipping the release cue
❌ Only practicing in one place
❌ Repeating “stay” over and over
👉 Set your dog up to succeed
💜 What Success Looks Like
A dog who:
✔ Holds position calmly
✔ Waits for release
✔ Can handle real-life situations
✨ Final Thoughts
“Stay” isn’t about control—it’s about clarity and consistency.
👉 Build it step-by-step, and your dog will understand 💜
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