🐾Polite Greetings — How to Stop Jumping on Guests

🐶 “My Dog Gets TOO Excited When People Come Over…”

Jumping is one of the most common behaviors—and one of the most frustrating 😅

But here’s the thing:

👉 Dogs jump because it works.

They get:

  • Attention
  • Eye contact
  • Touch

Even saying “no” can reinforce it!

🧠 Why Dogs Jump

Dogs greet face-to-face.

👉 Jumping = trying to say hello

Add excitement + energy, and you get:

💥 Jumping, bouncing, chaos

🐾 Step 1: Teach an Alternative Behavior

Instead of just stopping jumping…

👉 Teach:

✔ Sit for greetings

✔ Four paws on the floor

✔ Go to place

💡 Your dog needs a clear job.

🚫 Step 2: Remove Reinforcement for Jumping

When your dog jumps:

❌ No eye contact

❌ No talking

❌ No touching

👉 Turn away or step back

Jumping should get zero reward.

🧁 Step 3: Reward Calm Greetings

The moment your dog:

✔ Sits

✔ Stands calmly

✔ Keeps paws down

👉 Reward immediately!

This teaches:

👉 “Calm behavior works”

🚪 Step 4: Practice Setups (Don’t Wait for Guests)

  • Set your dog up for success:
  • Practice with family
  • Use controlled repetitions
  • Keep it low-pressure

👉 Training happens BEFORE real-life situations

🐾 Step 5: Manage the Environment

If your dog gets overwhelmed:

✔ Use a leash

✔ Use place

✔ Create distance

👉 Prevent rehearsal of jumping

🚫 What NOT to Do

❌ Yell or push your dog off

❌ Knee them (old advice—harmful)

❌ Expect instant perfection

👉 These don’t teach the right behavior.

💜 What Success Looks Like

A dog who:

✔ Greets calmly

✔ Keeps paws on the floor

✔ Looks to you for guidance

✨ Final Thoughts

Don’t just stop the behavior—replace it.

That’s where lasting change happens 💜

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